Monday, May 29, 2006

memorial day




When I was a child I loved Memorial Day. The fireworks, the parades, it was all fun. I still enjoy the fireworks and the parades, especially the parade here in our little town which has an almost Rockwellian quality to it.

As I've gotten older I find it is a time to truly solemnly contemplate those who served so that the rest of us may live free. We need to truly honor the men and women of our armed forces for their sacrifices and be grateful for what they have given us.

At 3 PM there is a moment of silence across the nation. 3 PM was chosen because it was thought that this was a time when everyone people would be together. If you are in your car you are asked to turn on your lights. Many radio stations are planning to play Taps. I plan to make tissue paper poppies with my kids at that time.

Here are some other links to learn more:

MemorialDay.Org

The Memorial Day Foundation

Wikipedia Memorial Day

Beliefnet Memorial Day


For those who have served in the past and are serving now, for those who have given their lives that we may live in freedom, we honor you and are grateful to you and to your families.

socks

As part of my laundry update I come to the subject of socks. Lots of people have written about missing-sock-from-the-dryer syndroms, Erma Bombeck being inarguable the most famous of them.

My dilemma is slightly more tricky. Two out of three children in my house (sounds like a commercial doesn't it) prefer to wear mismatched socks. Sometimes not even matching the outfit they are wearing. On occasion not even matching in length. Does this bother me? Not one iota. Why you ask? Well...

it's a form of self-expression,

it means I don't have to worry about matching up socks out of the laundry,

they're old enough to dress themselves, if they wear blue pinstripes and orange polka-dots who am I to quibble about matching socks,

it means I don't have to buy socks as often because they will always have a pair


The one problem with this theory is that all socks are fair game (well, except for Dad's but they don't seem to be drawn to men's black dress socks so he's safe for now. I'm sure in a pinch if they were desperate and thought they could get away with it all bets would be off). This means each others' and, most importantly, mine! [note: let's not even begin to discuss shirts, shoes, pajamas and purses]

Sometimes it can take up to six months for me to get a sock back especially since one of the two does her own laundry. She pilfers one of my socks and who knows when I'll find out about it. Unfortunately sometimes it's been washed so many times more than it's mate that they no longer match, then the child in question gets "new" socks.

I have a section of my sock drawer reserved for singles. It's depressing how many socks are in that part of the drawer. I have, upon occasion, been tempted to rip one of my socks off the foot of a child spotted wearing it. Usually I just request that they return it when they are done with it. Unfortunately I am so brain dead that I don't remember and they continue to wash-and-wear until the next time I notice or until I happen to get to the dryer before they do and remove my socks to safety.

My biggest fear is that one day when they move out I will discover that I actually own several hundred pairs of socks instead of the measly couple of dozen I currently have in my drawer.

laundry

It seems to be a never ending task. Having just gotten our brand-y new dryer (hey now the washer and dryer doors FACE each other instead of the same direction...how cool is that?) we can safely dry laundry in the machine without fear of explosion or other mechanical devastations.

I was going to write a rant about laundry and children but Stephanie did it so much better than I ever could that I'll let you read hers. My only comments?

1. My darlin's don't understand when I get upset about their wanting new clothes. Somehow I can't see buying them new ones to sit on the floor of their room. After all, it's clothing not carpeting.

2. While two of the three do their own laundry, in a new and novel twist they have starting using the laundry/mud room as their personal hamper.

Aargh.

alphabet game

Shannon over at Rocks In My Dryer sent me a letter for the Alphabet Game. It's the letter C So now I have to think of 10 things that start with that letter and why I like them. If you want a letter too just let me know and I'll send you one (psst...wanna buy a vowel?).

1. Cookie - I loved Sesame Street and the Cookie Monster was great. Since this was the first thing that popped into my head when I got my letter it winds up on the top of my list.

2. Chocolate - no explanation needed

3. Cows - I love cows, I think they're cute. I used to collect cow stuff but had to stop at 23 because my husband said the house was getting too crowded. I no longer collect them but love the ones I have.

4. Children - mine expecially, but others as well. I think children are such a gift and such amazing people, I really enjoy their company.

5. Cats - I grew up with them, have one now, find myself drawn to them when I visit others. Don't know why but they are great.

6. Cathedral - I love visiting them. There's an aura that pervades them and I find it so delicious to soak it in.

7. Castles - see #6 above.

8. Curry - mild only but I find it delicious. I've been very fortunate in my life to have several friends who are from India. They seem to delight in feeding me and are impressed that I like their food (what's not to like?) so I get fed often, yumm.

9. Corgis - I think they are adorable, there is just something so cute about them.

10. Cousins - very important people in your life. I'm lucky that I have so many and so many wonderful ones at that.

garden book meme

My Mom has started a meme (she said propigate--can you tell she's a gardener?) over on her website and asked me to participate. I think this is a free-for-all so if you like gardening and like books join in!

How many gardening books do you own?
89 - seems like a puny collection compared to my Mom and her friends but it is HUGE comparred to most people I know

What are your five favorites?
What Plant Where, I find this to be a very useful book when trying to figure out how to put things together or figuring out why it's not growing properly.

Reader's Digest Illustrated Guide to Gardening, I seem to refer to this one over and over, it's so easy to understand and is a very useful book.

Gardener's World of Bulbs, (and not just because my Mom wrote it, really) I love the pictures and the information in this book. I pull it out just to look through the pictures sometimes and to read snippets here and there; I like the way she writes (read her Garden Diary to see for yourself).

Nature Notes of the Country Diary of an Edwardian Lady, I love pulling down this book from time to time and reading through the current season, month, week, whatever. Every now and then I think that I should write my own notes (or even have my kids do it too) to showcase the differences between then and now but somehow it never seems to happen...perhaps one day.

The Kitchen Garden, (I have the earlier version than the link shows) I really like this book, the pictures, the way it's laid out. I dream of one day having a garden that all comes together so nicely. Of course now that I've stopped growing vegetables that probably won't happen in this garden but who knows what the future holds.


What is your most recent garden book purchase?
ummmmmmmm...it's been so long since I've purchased one that I really don't know.

weekend update

It was a very busy weekend, so much going on that I had no time to write it all down until now.

Saturday I got together with my NBF Holly, her daughter E, her sister Wendy, my daughter D, my Aunt Susan and we had a great time. Lounging, laughing, going out for yummy Thai food (I left my take-away in your fridge! - wah), going to Ikea for hours, back to the house, quick dinner, drive home, collapse into bed.

Sunday I was very priviledged to be able to attend a lecture by Swami Asokananda on meditation. He's a very gifted speaker, witty, amusing, thought-provoking. I felt that I really gained a lot from listening to him and having the opportunity to meet him for a moment after his talk.

After that I went to Stormville and wandered around in the hot weather for a little while. I found a few pieces of vintage cloth (tablecloth, etc) and a couple of lovely embroidered pillow cases. My Mom had given us a few very nice handmade lace edged pillow cases a couple of years ago and I think these go nicely with them. It was so hot though that I really didn't stay too long.

Came home, went out with my kids, came home and collapsed (does this seem like a theme?). As I said, it was a long weekend but a lot of fun. Thank goodness today is a holiday so we can have a quiet day at home to try to catch up on chores and relax a lttle.

Friday, May 26, 2006

things are achangin'

Lately I seem to have been on a blog kick. Finding more and more new blogs that I really enjoy and want to read. But there are only so many hours in a day and I need to focus on those things that benefit my family (like, oh, laundry?? meals?). So I am slowly winnowing out my blogs to get them down to a more reasonable level.

One thing I have discovered is that as much as I love the crafting blogs a number of them are probably not going to remain on my list because they are for crafts that I don't do. And while I like them I would rather read my favorite knitting blogs, mommy blogs, etc. Of course the comics/pictures stay (Sherman rocks!) but that's because they are a quick read.

As I was making coming to the realization that I have too many blogs I came to understand that it's almost a metaphor for how I sometimes live my life. Get over-involved with too many projects/good causes and feel overwhelmed but somehow feel that it is unacceptable to let anything go. As if I am somehow failing by admitting that I cannot volunteer for five different committees and take care of my family and house and find a smidgeon of time for myself. By focusing on my priorities husband, kids, house I will ultimately be less stressed and we'll all be happier. It's great to want to give and do for others but you have to make sure you and yours are taken care of first.

Okay, off my soapbox, thanks for reading.

Thursday, May 25, 2006

whoops sorrell

I went to plant my herbs in the garden and discovered a duplicate. In the far corner, next to the currants (?) is a sorrel. Looks like the one I just bought. A sample nibble proves that it is indeed exactly what I just bought. But I have never bought one before! Not sure where it came from but now I have two.



Interesting uses lie ahead I am sure:

medicinal uses

Here are a couple of recipes from Garden Guides

Sorrel Omelet

Ingredients:
4 eggs
1 tablespoon cream
1 cup sorrel, cleaned and trimmed
2 tablespoons butter, divided
1/4 tsp salt

Shred sorrel. In a heavy pan, heat half the butter and add sorrel and salt. Cook for about ten minutes, while stirring. Combine the eggs and cream in a bowl, beating gently. Add the sorrel mixture and combine. Add the remaining butter to a skillet and heat until butter is slightly browned. Add the egg mixture and stir briskly with the back of a fork or spoon until the eggs are evenly spread on the bottom of the skillet. Keep moving the unset eggs around with the utensil smoothly until there is no liquid left. Do not overcook. Shake the pan gently over the heat a few times. Fold the omelet over in half and serve.

Sorrel Soup

Ingredients:
1/2 pound sorrel
2 tablespoons butter
6 cups water
1/2 pound potatoes, peeled and quartered
2 tsp. salt
1 cup milk
1 egg yolk

Clean and shred sorrel, then chop. In a large heavy pan, heat butter. Add sorrel and cook, stirring, for ten minutes until reduced to about 1/2 cup. Add the water, potatoes and salt. Bring to a boil. Cover and simmer for 1/2 hour. Strain and mash or puree the vegetables. Stir the cooking liquid into vegetables and return to pan. Bring to boil. Stir in milk and yolk. Cook until hot, but do not boil. Serve with French Bread.

and more from John Morrell

New Potatoes with Salami & Sorrel

1 lb Small new potatoes 1/2 t Coriander seed
1 sm Handful of sorrel 1/2 t Wholegrain mustard
2 oz Italian salami (or more) 2 T Olive oil
-- thinly sliced 1/2 t White wine vinegar
1 sm Onion Salt & Pepper, to taste


Chop the onion roughly and partially soften it in 2 generous tablespoons of
the oil. Do not let it brown. Scrub the potatoes (but on no account peel
them) and steam them. Wash and dry the sorrel, discarding tough stalks.
Roll up the leaves tighly in your fingers, just a few at a time, as though
making a cigarette, and snip across into fine ribbons.
Tip the softened onion and its juices into a big bowl. Stir in 1/2
teaspoon each vinegar and mustard, some salt and lots of pepper and
coriander seed. The coriander seed should be freshly toasted and ground
coarsely using a pestle and mortar or a spare peppermil. Add the potatoes
to the bowl while still piping hot, so they drink up the flavours of the
dressing. Cut each potato in half or into quarters depending on size, and
toss gently. Scatter some of the sorrel over the base of a shallow serving
dish. Pile the potatoes into the centre, encircle them with the sliced
salami and scatter the remaining ribbons of sorrel over the top. Serve
while potatoes are still warm.

Split Pea Soup with Sorrel

2 T Sweet butter 2 medium Onions; roughly diced
1 small Ham hock; -=OR=- 1 medium Carrot; roughly diced
6 oz -Cooked ham or bacon 2 Celery stalks; roughly diced
1 Lemon, cut in half 1 t Finely minced garlic
3 bn Fresh sorrel 1 c Whipping cream
6 c Chicken stock or Chicken Broth Salt and pepper; to taste

IN A STOCK POT, over low heat, melt the butter and add the onion, carrot,
celery and garlic. Let the vegetables cook, stirring, until limp, about 15
minutes, being careful not to brown. Add the split peas, stock, ham hock
and lemon and bring to a boil. Reduce the heat to low and simmer for 30
minutes, or until the peas are completely soft. Remove the ham hock and the
lemon. Add the sorrel and cream. Transfer to a food processor or blender
and puree until smooth. Strain through a fine sieve. Taste for salt and
pepper and adjust as desired. Serve this soup piping hot or well chilled.
NOTE: If the soup is chilled, thin it with an additional cup of stock,
low-sodium broth or water.

and one from Better Homes and Gardens

Asparagus with Sorrel Dressing

1/4 cup plain low-fat yogurt
1/4 cup mayonnaise or salad dressing
1/4 cup finely snipped sorrel or fresh spinach
1 green onion, thinly sliced
1 teaspoon lemon-pepper seasoning (optional)
1 pound asparagus spears, trimmed
2 tablespoons water

1. For dressing, in a small bowl combine yogurt, mayonnaise, sorrel, green onion, and, if desired, lemon-pepper seasoning. Cover and chill until ready to serve.
2. Fold a 36x18-inch piece of heavy foil in half to make a double thickness of foil that measures 18x18 inches. Place asparagus in center of foil. Fold up edges of foil slightly; drizzle asparagus with the water. Bring up 2 opposite edges of foil; seal with a double fold. Fold remaining ends to completely enclose asparagus, leaving space for steam to build.
3. Place asparagus on the rack of an uncovered grill directly over medium-hot coals. Grill about 15 minutes or until asparagus is crisp-tender, turning once halfway through grilling. Serve the asparagus with dressing. Makes 4 servings.

It's very lemony tasting. Should be a yummy addition to the summer kitchen.

wfm wednesday



Another Wednesday, another tip that works for me (okay, it's Thursday and I'm a day late but let's pretend, shall we?):

When hanging my laundry I hang the shirts on hangers and then use a clothespin to secure the hangers to the line. This way when they dry I can take them down and put them away much more quickly.

Don't forget to check out other tips at Rocks In My Dryer.

Wednesday, May 24, 2006

yum

My rhubarb has been growing by leaps and bounds. Today I decided to make one batch of jam. The Lemon Rhubarb Jam I mentioned earlier.

The recipe is quick and easy. It made 4 and one half 8-ounce jars of very tangy jam. Steve isn't going to like it because he is not a big citrus fan but I am loving the tastes I keep slurping licking from the pot.

For the next batch I'll probably make more Rhubarb-Apricot since that is a big family favorite. This may wind up being my own private stash of four jars if no one else in the family likes it.

yum

My rhubarb has been growing by leaps and bounds. Today I decided to make one batch of jam. The Lemon Rhubarb Jam I mentioned earlier.

The recipe is quick and easy. It made 4 and one half 8-ounce jars of very tangy jam. Steve isn't going to like it because he is not a big citrus fan but I am loving the tastes I keep slurping licking from the pot.

For the next batch I'll probably make more Rhubarb-Apricot since that is a big family favorite. This may wind up being my own private stash of four jars if no one else in the family likes it.

Tuesday, May 23, 2006

the littlest sister

Although she is only two weeks old little E came to Stitch Sisters tonight. I confess that I was the lucky winner of the hold-the-baby-and-feed-her lottery by virtue of snatching her from her mother's arms. She is the sweetest little poppet all squeeky and wriggly. She has that lovely baby smell. Mmmmmmm.

Needless to say I didn't get much knitting done. I shamefully confess that I am still working on the same square that I was working on last week. But it was worth the sacrifice *grin*.

buying plants

Today while running errands I stopped at the nursery just down the street. She always has such lovely things and I really enjoy visiting with her as well as purchasing plants. The hard part is that everything looks so lovely I usually wind up buying much more than I need.

Today I was fairly restrained. I bought two tomato plants (one is a patio type to see if perhaps I like that better than beefsteak for the limited growing space). Although we get tomatoes from the Farm I like having fresh from my garden as well. I also bought a thyme to replace mine which does not look like it is coming back, parsley, a catnip (which I will hide from Chloe on the upper deck) and a sorrel plant. I resisted all the lovely jewel-like flowers she had. I'm trying to rip out my backyard the last thing I need to do is to make more work for myself.

When I got there it was a planting party. Her son and two of his friends (all in kindergarten) were helping her make container gardens. They were busy mixing the soil in the wheelbarrow, filling containers with the soil and then planting the flowers she gave them where she told them to. I mentioned that her house is probably one of the most popular ones for playdates...kids are encouraged to play in the dirt there. It was so sweet to see their little faces enjoying the dirt and yet being productive as well.

Friday, May 19, 2006

thump grrr grrr clunk grrr

That's the noise that my *sigh* dryer is making. Now I'll need to go get a new one. It actually starting making this noise a while ago. Steve managed to fix it but a couple of days later it's doing it again, worse than before. It actually frightens me to run the thing. In it's defense I should point out that the dryer is 18 or 19 years old; so I shouldn't complain but...

One of my dear friends, Anita, suggested that I could just have all my friends come over and blow on my laundry. "With all the hot air we've got we should have it dry in no time, doncha think?" OMG that is too funny.

What's not funny is that in the last 18 months we have been through a well pump, water softener system, hot water heater, FURNACE, dishwasher, clothes washer and now this. BLEAH!!! Normally I love shopping for new appliances but I think I've had more than my fair share at this point.

works for me




Shannon over at Rocks In My Dryer started a pretty cool idea. Every Wednesday write down a tip that works for you. Could be one someone has heard before, doesn't have to be earthshattering, but it works for you. I'm officially delving into the fray with my first tip:

When I clean out my vegetable drawers in my fridge I line them with paper towels. That way when I go to clean them the next time any gunky stuff (like the tomato that got squished at the bottom of the drawer) doesn't stick to the bottom of the drawer and is much easier to clean up.

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Thursday, May 18, 2006

sounds of spring

In addition to the tweeting of the birds, the peeping of the spring peepers a new voice has joined the chorus to let us know that spring has arrived.

Spooky, my little donkey friend who lives down the hill, has obviously been turned out into his field because we can hear him braying. He's very sweet, white with grey spots. He's named Spooky because he was born on Halloween eve. He has a little harem of six brown lady donkeys but I don't know their names.

The first of the iris has also started to bloom. That vivid purple color is so lovely and really lets me know that the growing season is here in full force.

fluff

As I've mentioned D has recently become a Vegetarian. This means no more marshmallows. Well, that's not exactly true, there are Vegan Marshmallows by Vegan Essentials but they are $3.99 for 10 ounces. Not enough to satisfy one hungry teen on a s'mores feast mission.

I did discover by careful examination of containers that Marshmallow Fluff is made without gelatin. Vital to my daughter's vegetarian happiness. Luckily they have lots of desserty recipes including Rice Krispy Treats, that childhood staple, and Whoopie Pies (which I have never made but now that I have a recipe maybe I will).

magic loaf

One of my favorite blog reads is Jennifer's Vegan Lunchbox. We've ordered the boxes, waiting for them to arrive, and I've been scoping it out for ideas. Since D has become a Vegetarian it's also useful to garner a few recipes here and there.

The entry I just read was excellent!!! It included a link to her Magical Loaf Studio with a great way to combine stuff to make a veggie loaf. Of course I still need the Magical Holly Lentil Loaf (are you reading??) but this will do in the meantime. I'll have to try it and see how my family likes it. I think it looks pretty good.

And here is my first loaf recipe created by the MLStudio:

Ingredients:

1/2 cup pine nuts
2 TB olive oil
One onion, diced
One large garlic clove, minced
One large carrot, peeled and grated
Two celery ribs, diced
2 cups cooked kidney beans
1 cup cooked brown rice
1/2 to 1 1/2 cups vegetable broth, as needed
1/2 cup cooked oatmeal
1/4 tsp. dried thyme
1/2 tsp. dried sage
1 tsp. dried basil
1/4 cup minced fresh parsley
1/4 tsp. dried rosemary
2 TB ketchup
Several dashes vegetarian Worcestershire Sauce
Freshly ground black pepper, to taste
1 tsp. celery salt


Directions:

Preheat the oven to 350º. Oil a loaf pan or spray with nonstick spray and set aside.

Grind the pine nuts into a coarse meal using a food processor or spice/coffee grinder. Place in a large mixing bowl and set aside.

Sauté any vegetables you've chosen in the olive oil until soft. Add to the large mixing bowl along with all the remaining ingredients. Mix and mash together well, adding only as much liquid as needed to create a soft, moist loaf that holds together and is not runny. Add more liquid or binder/carbohydrate as needed.

Press mixture into the loaf pan and bake for 45 minutes to 1 hour, or until cooked through.

Let the loaf cool in the pan for 10 to 15 minutes, then turn out onto a plate or platter and slice. Serve with potatoes, vegetables, and vegetarian gravy, if desired.

skip to the loo

I found this website and think it's hilarious. It's a list of where to find clean potties when you are traveling. www.thebathroomdiaries.com. It also has horror stories of those who did not find appropriate facilities.

Because of how they list them and the lack of pictures it's hard to tell if the list from Basel, Switzerland includes this one.